Being a nanny requires a seemingly endless list of skills and flexibility. Let’s be honest—nannies can do it all. But there’s one skill that reigns supreme. We’re talking about a superpower every nanny possesses: patience!
Why Patience Matters:
Patience isn’t just about waiting; it’s a cornerstone of your professionalism. In the world of nannying, patience means navigating tantrums, teaching new skills, and building trust over time. It’s the glue that holds a beautiful connection between you and the little ones you care for.
Here are some tips to harness your patience:
Breathe Deeply:
We’re sure you’ve heard it before, but there’s a reason it gets repeated so often. Breathing works wonders. When the day gets overwhelming, take a moment to inhale calmness and exhale stress. Deep breaths are a secret weapon against chaos and a tangible way to regain control and move forward.
Set Realistic Expectations:
Children are wonderfully unpredictable. Embrace the unexpected, and look for bits of joy (and humor!) along the way.
Mindfulness Breaks:
Sneak in a few moments of just-for-you mindfulness during naptime/reading time/quiet time. Or make mindfulness breaks a part of you and your NK’s daily routine; try it out together! It’s a reset button for your patience levels.
And some tips for harnessing your patience in other facets of the industry:
Virtual Interview Magic:
During virtual interviews, showcase your patience by giving thoughtful responses. It’s such a simple way to demonstrate your ability to handle challenges and potentially stressful situations calmly and with a sense of complete control.
Job Search Resilience:
Job hunting can be tough, but here, your patience will pay off. Reframe rejection as a stepping stone to something even better.
Raise Requests:
When asking for a raise, patience is key. Present your case thoughtfully, highlighting both your daily and your long-term contributions.
Supporting Families Through Challenging Times:
Your patience shines brightest during tough times. Be a pillar of strength for the families you work with. Proving yourself to be a patient and reliable presence during “normal” times and bringing that consistency in when things get tough is the absolute best way to provide support during times of turmoil. Sometimes, a dependable presence and a listening ear speak volumes.
In this industry where versatility is a daily requirement, patience stands out as a crucial tool. As you embrace the tips to harness your patience in the day-to-day chaos and professional challenges, remember that each moment of composure contributes to the invaluable bond between you and the little ones you care for.