The holiday season is here, and if you’re asking yourself, “Should I give my nanny family a gift?”—don’t worry, you’re not alone! Let’s talk through some ideas and tips to help you navigate holiday gifting, so you can make it as stress-free (and meaningful) as possible.

Are Gifts Necessary?

Here’s the deal: absolutely not!

Giving your nanny family a gift is a kind gesture, but it’s not required or expected. It’s entirely up to you and what feels right for your situation. Whether you decide to give something or not, the most important thing is the love and care you bring to their family all year long.

Thoughtful Gift Ideas

If you want to give your nanny kids a little something, keep it simple and meaningful. A small toy that matches their current obsession (dinosaurs, princesses, outer space?), a favorite book, or even a handmade “coupon” for a special day together can go a long way.

For the parents, gifts are totally optional! If you decide to include them, thoughtful but simple ideas work best:

• A heartfelt holiday card with a message of gratitude.
• A gift card to their favorite coffee shop or a cozy bakery.
• A nice bottle of wine, champagne, or craft beer (if you know they’ll enjoy it).

Sentimental Gifting

Want to go the extra mile? Get creative with the kids! Crafting handmade ornaments together or framing a sweet photo of their little ones from this past year makes for a deeply personal gift. It’s thoughtful, unique, and full of heart—perfect for the holidays!

Give the Gift of Time

If you’d rather skip a physical gift, consider offering your time instead. A “coupon” for an extra babysitting night, a surprise date-night shift, or even covering a morning so they can sleep in might just make their holiday season more delightful. It’s a thoughtful gesture that costs nothing but will mean so much.

At the end of the day, whether you decide to give a gift or not, what matters most is the care and kindness you bring to your nanny family every day. Your role in their lives is already the greatest gift they could ask for! So take the pressure off, do what feels good for you, and enjoy the holiday season—because you deserve it!