The holidays are a magical time of year, but they can also be busy and stressful—especially for families and their nannies. While you’re juggling packed calendars, holiday traditions, gift shopping, etc., your nanny is likely doing the same! Here’s a little insider knowledge about what makes this season go smoother for everyone.
- Holiday bonuses are the industry standard
A holiday bonus is a common way families show appreciation for their nanny’s hard work all year long. It doesn’t have to be extravagant, but it’s a meaningful gesture that says, “We see you, and we’re grateful.” A typical bonus is one to two weeks’ pay, or one day’s pay for each month worked (for newer hires) and two+ weeks’ pay (for longer-term hires!).
- Nannies have their own families, friends, and traditions, too
It’s easy to get caught up in your own whirlwind of holiday chaos, but remember: your nanny has their own people to celebrate with, too. Being considerate of their time and commitments shows you value them as a person, not just as an employee.
- Gifts go a long way
While a holiday bonus is customary, a thoughtful gift is a personal touch that can make your nanny feel truly appreciated. Whether it’s a handwritten card, a gift card to their favorite store, or something that shows you know them well, it’s the thought that counts.
- Your busy schedule doesn’t mean your nanny must clear theirs
The holidays often mean packed schedules for families, with extra parties, school events, and last-minute errands. But just because you’re busier than usual doesn’t mean your nanny is automatically available for additional hours. Communicating needs early and respecting their schedule helps everyone stay on the same page.
- Extra responsibilities deserve extra compensation
If the holidays bring additional tasks—like wrapping gifts, coordinating holiday travel, or managing a packed house full of visiting relatives—it’s a good idea to offer extra pay. These seasonal duties go beyond the usual job description, and acknowledging that effort fosters a positive working relationship.
- Now’s a great time for an end-of-year check-in
The end of the year is perfect for reflecting on how things are going. Have a conversation about what’s working, what could improve, and any goals or adjustments for the coming year. This kind of check-in can strengthen communication and set the tone for the months ahead.
- Gratitude costs nothing
At the end of the day, a simple “thank you” can mean the world. Whether it’s a heartfelt message, a kind note, or just taking a moment to express your appreciation, showing gratitude goes a long way in making your nanny feel valued and respected.
The holiday season is about joy, connection, and gratitude. Taking these small steps to show thoughtfulness can make the season more meaningful for your nanny—and by extension, your entire family. After all, a happy nanny helps create a happy home!